Kinda fucked up how cis women are allowed to abandon feminity in the name of feminism but trans women are forced to adopt it just to be recognized as women
even worse is when cis feminists accuse trans women who overperform femininity for safety of being tools of the patriarchy, and trans women who underperform femininity for ANY reason (including abandoning it in the name of feminism) fakers.
idk how to like make a post like this but yesterday my sister had an almost two hour long seizure after having a fever for 3 days we now know she has swelling in her brain and she’s being treated for meningitis we’re just waiting for like meds to work and take the swelling down so like prayers are greatly appreciated and there’s a gofundme set up for her too reblogs are appreciated thank you